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Brain vs Heart ! At 30 it hardly matters. Is it or it doesn't?

Sometimes I just sit down still and wish this whole world to come to a stand still. Even it be for a few minutes. I ponder and ponder and then only one thought crosses my mind. What did I do all my life? Why I did this why I did that but then the true confessions will be borne by only that mind which comes to a stand still in a stand still time where we can rewind and re-live those moments.
All these debates come across as throughout my life I did mere one thing.
A fight, a fight of brain vs. heart. Brain is the apt word because its heart which guides the thoughts and then mind originates from there; the heart itself. But brain word is just apt  for me, may be because I am a medico so I prefer using the anatomical terminology, may be because I know the famous sayings which go around like these ? Heart is where the mind is OR mind is where the heart is OR if you want to know where your heart is look to where your mind is OR to be philosophical 'Om' is where the heart is OR else in today's genre simply edge of sanity is Hell is where the heart is( a famous song :D). It all sounds soo confusing!

Till you are in 20s you get a chance for contemplating the guilt pangs beginning in teens continuing thereafter till 29s then alas welcome the 30s the badass! All of a sudden all the guilts fade away. Instead of re-living, you want to 'revive' the moments by making a family, seeing your own children living the different phases of life, filling the void which is created for no reason. No reason because you have either done something wrong in your life or you haven't done a single thing wrong the entire life(that leaves you with a void too! ;) )
The best is to embrace your life lovingly which have a balanced equation of experiencing both  the goods and the bad bits of it! Such that you come out neutral out of it. (Neutrality here I refer to as Peace and calm)Hola! You live life, you love life with kids or without, you are happy in all the situations whether you are married or bachelor, it doesn't matter anymore. You come to terms to everything all together so soon. You become saint all of a sudden and the biggest tug of war ends because the one part of your body follows husband or your partner or your bff or family and heart follows your other half  too. What all follow you are the fears of losing your loved ones as the time is ticking away like a time bomb you feel it, your responsibility follows you. You follow money and money makes you follow it more. And the life goes on so on and on piling on more and more of responsibilties. Responsibilities not only the tough ones but also the toughest ones including the social obligations of smiling at clicking moblies' selfies and smiling to the life in any form in any way! The  way life treats you doesn't matter then. All that matters is you smile even when you are in pain from inside or happy so again the solitude of 30s save you from the disastrous situations and trust me it strengthens you to synchronise the brains rhythmic electric stimulations with heart’s rhythms!!!
So, all I want to say is live life king size! Live the moments the way you want to live, enjoy the life with your near and dear ones in full vengeance and get a fruitful happy life. Stay happy stay healthy be it your 30s or 40s or 50s or 100th if you get lucky but yes make thyself lucky by being the lucky one selected by Lord to give one birth as a human, to live such a beautiful mix of life.
Appreciate life and the ones around and drink merrily to stay merry :D :D and the heart will melt away seeing the grit of brain to live to live and only to live. Keep smiling.

A tribute for all those at or touching or above Ouch!!! 30s!  Enjoy the ride...Finally will conclude it this way, home is where the heart is...💗✌
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  1. AnonymousJanuary 21, 2018 at 11:04 PM

    Agreed, Live to the present to the fullest. Good work dear-@DrSeetz

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    1. DrRidhimaJanuary 22, 2018 at 2:32 AM

      Thank you Seetha. You had always been a constant support to me. Love your ‘sporty’ spirit Doc! Thanks once again and keep smiling :)

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